Top Wedding Trends for 2010 by Crista Tharp

By the beginning of December, wedding planners are constantly asked about the new “hot thing” for the next year. 2010 is no different as Brides are consumed with finding the trend that could set their wedding apart from all of the others.

Trends come and go – something to be thankful for when looking back at wedding fashion in the 1980s. However, we are seeing some interesting things for the first time and Brides are really taking advantage of the options.

Taking Responsibility

It seems to me that this is the first time Brides and their Grooms are realizing that they don’t have to model their wedding after a celebrity in order to have a great day. Brides are taking responsibility for their own choices, tastes and budget when deciding what they want. This is a great thing to see and it leads into the next trend which has become very popular.

Making it Their Own

Couples are looking at tradition like a starting point rather than a rule book. They are putting their own twist on things and aren’t apologizing for it. Their weddings have become more intimate and focus on their families and guests. They aren’t hampered by what “used to be” and go for what works for them. I participated in a wedding where the couple chose to have ceremonial cocktails instead of wedding cake. Their guests were treated to a perfectly chilled dirty martini or a margarita as it slide down the ice shoot of a really cool ice sculpture. The Bride and Groom Wowed their guests even further when they were surprised with an incredible jazz singer singing “At Last” at the very moment the Baked Alaska Dessert was being lit on fire. They knew what they wanted and went for it.

Personality over Etiquette

The personality of both the Bride and Groom has become crucial to setting wedding apart. One wedding that immediately comes to mind is where the couple married in the Groom’s Grandparent’s backyard. The Bride was barefoot and chose to have no attendants but asked all the women in the family to wear bright colors like red, hot pink, orange and yellow. They had a bluegrass band, Mexican candy hanging from the trees and a piñata for the kids. The food was all prepared by the two families and it was one of the most memorable and inspirational weddings I have ever witnessed.

Dramatic Colors

Very hot colors and unusual textures are being used more than neutral tones. Hot pink satins and very ornate damasks are gracing the tables at the reception and creating stunning and beautiful atmospheres that are extremely unique.

Fruits and Vegetables

Incorporating fruits and veggies either in the centerpieces or decorations is very popular. Brides are also turning to their front yard for inspiration. Use what nature provides and it will be less expensive and very different.

Headpieces

Brides are choosing to create their own headpieces with jewelry or even feathers to get a much different look than the traditional veil.

Cakes

Bakers are outdoing themselves with unbelievable cake designs that look so real you don’t even want to eat them. This is for both the wedding cake and the Groom’s cake which is making a comeback.

The thing to remember about trends is that YOU make them. Future Brides will be attending your wedding and taking notes about things they see and like. That is how a trend is created. So don’t get too hung up on what other people are doing – put some thought into it and create your own. You never know, it might just be the next “hot thing!”

Last changed: May 03 2010 at 6:39 PM